#Day 209: 28 July 2016, Thursday
LEFT GROUP
Philippians 2:4 ESV - "Let each of you look not only to his own interests, but also to the interests of others"
Today, one of my friend decided to left our chat group. But what bothering me is not about why he left the group, but on the fact that only a very small amount of our group members know the reason. Only the after effect then people are trying to show that they actually care.
I am writing this not to show that I am any better. I am sharing this because I feel that we, including myself, are getting further away in understanding the love of God, the commandment to love others.
I do see how we care about the people within our circle, our close community, our group. But very ignorance of others that is not fitting our preferences, our interest.
I do see how we shows enthusiasm about our interests without putting tolerance towards others limitation or interests. Be it hobbies, or holidays or even grooming. And no, I am not saying hobbies, holidays or grooming are bad, but I am talking in the context of tolerance.
Somehow I asked myself, are we falling into favoritsm? (Read: #Day 207)
- The importance of simple gentle smile and chat with others outside our circle, the new comers
- The importance of selflessly keep in contact eith our friends who seems have left or reduced their attendances at the community due to their life challenges or anything
- The importance to focus on whats important. The real people and not merely just the appearances (No make up will cover the true love and care that we have for others)
I pray that I, with the grace of God, can share more of my personal time to walk the John 13:34-35 message: "A new commandment I give to you, that you love one another: just as I have loved you, you also are to love one another. By this all people will know that you are my disciples, if you have love for one another.”